Date: Tue, 04 Jan 2000 02:25:57 -0800
Subject: Re: [LaMystique] Millennial Slumber/forgiving is possible



>There are pleasures to be found in fear, but if you find that foreign, I 
>would suggest a nice split-level on a suburban cul-de-sac.
>
>DK


There is more pleasure in overcoming fear I would venture! One way is to
move to Ireland. Most content people in the world. One of the safest...with
exceptions as we know. There are two methods to avoid fear and to live with
it. The last is recommended for people who have lived with or live with some
with BPD. 

1.      Avoidance.

2.      Devise a strategy to commute around it - psychologically/physically

3.     Correct it. Subscribe to Oz on Onelist to learn how to combat
psychological terror [this is a   list for people who have SOs with BPD
[border line personality disorder] or have lived with people with BPD. The
list is run by the authors of "Walking on Egg        Shells". Living with
these persons is an exercise in coping with both fear and anger.

Chao,

John